¿Qué es la libertad?
La libertad (en latín: libertas, -ātis)1 es la capacidad de la conciencia para pensar y obrar según la propia voluntad de la persona.
Según las acepciones 1, 2, 3 y 4 de este término en el diccionario de la Real Academia Española,1 el estado de libertad define la situación, circunstancias o condiciones de quien no es esclavo, ni sujeto, ni impuesto al deseo de otros de forma coercitiva. Wikipedia.
Creo que los seres humanos aman los conceptos. Y hemos inventado muchas palabras para cosas que no existen. Personalmente amo la palabra libertad. Es una idea hermosa, un objetivo hermoso, algo hermoso en lo que pensar. Y es hermoso pensar que la tienes, e incluso vivir de acuerdo con ese pensamiento. Como si pudieras poseer tal cosa.
Todos nosotros pensamos que deberíamos poder hacer lo que queramos, cuando queramos, con poca o ninguna repercusión. Si no podemos, entonces aparentemente, no somos libres. La parte divertida es que creemos que sabemos lo que queremos y lo que necesitamos. Sí, claro, ¡porque somos tan sabios!
Me encontré con dos conceptos de libertad que llamaron mi atención:
Imagina que has estado en prisión durante 50 años, encadenado al suelo todo ese tiempo. Obviamente no quieres esta situación, ¿verdad? Finalmente, eres liberado de tus cadenas. ¿Qué haces ahora? No has estado en el mundo exterior durante 50 años. Ni siquiera sabes por dónde empezar. Pero eres libre de ir y descubrirlo.
Libertad negativa Vs. Libertad positiva.
Libertad negativa (o derecho negativo) es aquella que se define por la ausencia de coacción externa al individuo que desee realizar un curso de acción determinado. Wikipedia.
Libertad de. Aquí es donde empieza. En la vida real tenemos toneladas de restricciones. Probablemente más de las que piensas. Porque básicamente desde que nacemos la sociedad nos pone cadenas invisibles. Tienes que vestirte, para empezar. Ni siquiera hablemos sobre vestir de cierta manera, dejémoslo en: tienes que usar ropa. (A menos que nazcas en una sociedad nudista, si es así, genial para ti.) ¿Alguna vez has visto a un niño tener una rabieta porque no quiere vestirse? A veces incluso se les permite correr desnudos… qué hermosa vida, cuando te permiten actuar como un total loco. Así es que se cría.
La verdad es que, porque vivimos en sociedad, obviamente tenemos que tener reglas y normas para evitar el caos. No, no puedes matar a tu vecino por ser un idiota. No, no puedes avanzar si el semáforo está en rojo. No, no puedes robar eso incluso si lo necesitas. Esta es solo la parte legal. Hay cosas que puedes hacer pero probablemente evites porque SABES que en realidad no deberías. Entonces no, no puedes gritar en una iglesia (¿es ilegal?).
Así que debes actuar de cierta manera, esta es la parte realmente mala. No puedes usar una falda si eres un niño. No puedes hacerte un tatuaje en la cara si quiere ser maestro/profesor. Las chicas no dicen groserías.
Toda esta falta de libertad para hacer, ser. El mundo exterior impone de manera tan intensa que empiezas a imponerte estas cosas a ti mismo y a las generaciones venideras. Ni siquiera te das cuenta, así son las cosas y listo. Algunas son necesarios, pero algunas son ridículos. Al final, ¿quién decide cuál es cuál?
Se entiende por libertad positiva la capacidad de cualquier individuo de ser dueño de su voluntad, y de controlar y determinar sus propias acciones, y su destino. Wikipedia.
Si eres libre de, eres libre para. Creo que esta es la parte más difícil. Si fueras libre para matar a alguien, ¿lo harías? Con un gran poder viene una gran responsabilidad. Si tuvieras total libertad, no significaría que sabrías qué hacer con ella. No significa que elegirías bien. Pero decir que eres libre no significa que no seas responsable.
Ya ves, la “libertad de” no tiene un significado real si no sabes qué hacer con eso. Primero debes descubrir quién eres realmente. ¿Quién eres sin todas esas restricciones? Nada realmente te impide llevar esa falda, hombre. Entonces, ¿por qué no? Lo más probable es que ni siquiera quieras usarla, porque “no fue hecha para ti.” Pero las faldas son súper cómodas, lo juro. No dejes que tu masculinidad sea tan frágil, que usar una falda amenace todo eso hasta hacerte sentir inseguro.
Hablando de política y países, por ejemplo. ¿Qué hace un país después de que es libre de su gobierno tiránico? ¿Que viene después? Tiene que construir algo nuevo. ¿Pero que? ¿Cómo?
Nota importante: su libertad termina donde comienza la mía.
Lastimar a alguien solo porque puedes, no significa que eres libre. Significa que eres un idiota. Y eres un prisionero de tus pensamientos de idiota. Lo siento.
Mi visión de la libertad es que seas tú mismo. – Osho
Entonces, al final, ¿la libertad es real? Si quieres ser 100% libre, debes irte a un bosque y vivir para siempre solo. No hay forma de tener una sociedad libre de normas y reglas. Esas siempre existirán. Y luego, tienes un cuerpo humano. Tienes límites, lo siento. No puedes volar (¿o puedes?). Lo que puedes esperar es tener suficiente coraje para ser tú mismo.
Pero ten en cuenta que ser tú mismo significa muchas cosas, no significa hacer lo que quieras. Seguramente “lo que quieras” son solo pensamientos programados en tu cerebro por fuentes externas también. Debes reprogramar todo lo que crees que eres. Esta es una tarea difícil.
Nos identificamos con demasiadas cosas que no tienen nada que ver con nosotros, y terminamos creyendo que no seríamos nada sin ellas. ¿Quién serías sin tu pasado? Muchas cosas te han moldeado en lo que eres hoy. Algunas ni siquiera te gustan. Pero no puedes evitarlo. Excepto que puedes.
No se trata de cambiar, se trata trasformarte para convertirte. Convertirte en lo que ya eres. Es como pelar una cebolla. Tu verdadero yo está escondido en el centro. A tu alrededor hay toneladas de máscaras. Miedos, costumbres, tradiciones, inseguridades.
Has tenido muchas voces dentro de ti hasta ahora. La voz de la sociedad, la voz de tu madre, de tu padre, de tus amigos. Todo diciéndote lo que es correcto y lo que no. Lo que es genial y lo que no. ¿Dónde está tu propia voz? Ve a encontrarla. Y no tengas miedo de lo que puedas encontrar. O sí, pero no dejes que el miedo te detenga.
HONESTIDAD. ¿Recuerdas? ¿No lo has oído por ahí?
La verdad te hará libre.
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My self from the future, 20 years from now, has sent me a letter:
It’s been years now.
When I look back I can’t believe the person I was back then. Who was she? And how did I become into this? What happened?
I think I slowly started to fade, and I disappeared in the back of my head, as I let a strange ghost take over everything I thought I was. It was easier. I didn’t have to fight so much that way. The world shaped me even when I didn’t want it to.
Except it didn’t actually shape me. It deformed me. It killed me so very slowly, drowning all my dreams, asphyxiating my innocence, my will to love, to live, to learn… Until all was left of me was an empty shell, a robot of some sort, a zombie.
At first I fought against it. I fought against all currents, against the gravity that tried to pull me into becoming what I feared the most. I dedicated to educate myself so I wouldn’t become one of them. I tried to be “strong”. I tried to remain soft, kind, loving. I tried to dissolve the feelings and emotions in my nature that wanted me to destroy. Myself. And everything else. Stay soft. Stay kind. Stay loving. I tried.
But at one point, I couldn’t hold it anymore. I started to wish it was all different. I started to wish I was like them. Empty. But probably better. Maybe they were right, and I was the weak one. Yes, I should be less like this, and more like that. I don’t know exactly when it happened, or if something specific happened that shifted something in me and turned my switch off.
Is it better now? I don’t think so. Most days I feel dead inside. Just like the rest of them. The worst part? Most days I don’t even care. I can’t feel shit. I can’t believe I wished for this to happen. But I don’t think I care enough to make it change right now. Maybe today I care a bit more than usual and that’s why I’m writing this.
Don’t do this to yourself. Don’t do this to us.
I close the letter I found underneath my pillow a few minutes ago. It does sound like me.
I have been feeling odd lately. It’s been tough. Trying to remain myself. Trying not to get burned by all this fire. Trying to remain untouched by all the dirt they throw. It’s so difficult. Like some days I forget who I am. And I mean the real me. Not the crazy impulses and emotions that confuse me too. The one that lives in my heart rather than my mind, that’s my real self.
She’s so scared. It feels like the world needs to destroy her. There’s no place for someone like her right here. But I still try to maintain the flame of this spirit burning bright, against all odds. Even in the worst days, even when I feel like all is lost, something remains quite in the back, staring and listening. All I can do is stay still, but it’s enough to keep the spark alive. I don’t want to be taken down.
I don’t want to be alive but dead inside. I refuse to let it kill me. I refuse to die just because I feel too much. I refuse to be called weak just because I am so damn alive. I will stay soft… and kind… and loving.
I refuse to hide my heart.
Picture from pixabay
I am a river. You will never encounter me twice. You will never see this again. I am never the same when I look at the mirror, probably because I don’t do it often. I am never the same when I look deep inside my head, I am always discovering new corners, new rooms… New scars. It’s hard to notice because I am with myself all the time (how annoying), but change happens way to often. It’s too quick for me to follow.
I am a current, and I have no choice. Everything spins so fast, and I can’t stop.
I flow up and down, sometimes against the wind, sometimes against gravity. Sometimes against my own will.
Some days I go dry, like thirsty empty veins, waiting for another heartbeat.
Some days I don’t know myself. I can’t recognize this person. This mind, this body. I don’t understand the words that I speak, or the words that I hear. And I stay quiet, like stagnant waters… If I don’t move, I am sure it will pass… It will pass. My streams will flow again.
It will pass.
Some days I am light. I can see clearly, my eyes wide open, colors sharp, I can see all edges and shapes of a somehow easy reality… But some days I am dark. I see nothing but cliffs and empty spaces, too many painful questions and no solutions. I am attracted to sharp objects, and my skin longs and screams for things that I don’t want to understand.
It will pass.
Sometimes I go mad.
Sometimes I realize.
It scares me to think that sometimes I don’t.
Sometimes I can’t do anything about it. I just stop and stare. Until it passes.
I(t) will pass.
It took me years to understand that it would probably always be like this. The river will always flow until it goes dry. But it will be a river again, soon enough. (And it will dry once more.)
River from pixabay
If you are awake enough, you know how it should be. But just because you know it doesn’t mean it’s easy.
No one teaches us anything about love. No one teaches us how to love ourselves, for starters. No one teaches us anything about human relationships. We think it’s implicit, because it just happens. But we know nothing. We make mistakes after mistakes, doing the best we can with what we have, and with what we think we know. But how many of us take the time to learn anything about loving right?
We don’t want this. We don’t want pain, we don’t want to suffer, we don’t want to hurt. And yet…
When I was a kid, I didn’t believe in God, but I believed in some kind of heaven. My cute explanation for this was very simple: My love couldn’t just die and disappear. It was so big for me, so intense, I couldn’t even imagine how it could vanish when my body perished, because it had nothing to do with my body. It was a separate entity that took over everything I was. It had nothing to do with me, I could just stand there and feel it. The same way I could feel the heat of the sun on my skin, or the wind blowing over my face, love just flowed into my heart. So love would remain, even if I didn’t.
This thought shaped me into who I am today. But back then, even if I didn’t love right, my love was purer, cleaner, innocent. As I grew up I felt like the world started to pollute it. I promised myself I wouldn’t let the world destroy this part of me, but as time passed, this task became more and more difficult. I could feel it happen very slowly. I looked around and everyone was so shattered and broken, to a point where they wouldn’t believe in love anymore.
14 y/o me left messages for future me all around. I would write little notes and hide them where I knew I would find them later. They all said “Believe in love, it exists.” Young me was way wiser than present me. She’s still teaching me lessons no one else can, and reminding me things I forgot, thing I lost in the fire of growing up and getting hurt.
Now, my love is tainted of humanity. It comes with many things that should not be there. Things I collected from the world without noticing, without ever wanting to. It comes with jealousy, fear, selfishness, pain, attachment, and more things that shouldn’t belong here, things that I don’t want and I don’t need. Everyday I try to clean the mess, but it’s not easy.
Now that I know better, I know how it should be. Free.
Instead, it’s got spots all over. Up until a point where I didn’t think it was love anymore, but a very human thing in it’s place, something that would die with me. It took me some time to understand that just because something isn’t perfect, it’s less real.
Love is still there. Hiding underneath the mess. Scared. But untouched. It’s not less love just because of my humanity, and this weird program embedded into our brain that many confuse with actual love.
Our job is to undress it from all the layers of dirt it has from society, we have to polish it and nurture it. We have to study ourselves and learn what is part of it and what isn’t.
But please, don’t forget it’s still there. Don’t let the world and it’s ways tell you otherwise. Don’t let pain confuse you. Don’t let society fool you and tell you how love should look like. Learn yourself, study, don’t forget no one has ever taught you anything about it, and you just know what you’ve seen.
I still believe the whole purpose of our existence is to learn how to love again. I’m not talking only about romantic love. Love is everywhere. The whole universe is put together thanks to it. There’s no greater love than the one of atoms that hold each other to create matter. Even the spaces that look empty, they’re still there holding on to dear existence, drawing everything together even when it looks far away.
Love travels faster than light, because it’s just always there. And it will be there even after you are gone, after everything is gone, love will be the only thing that remains.
Heart from pixabay
I will release you, my imaginary, inside of the universe of my mind
So you can get lost forever, roaming through my brightest stars
I will let you fly over my planets so you can feel my gravity
You will never be real, you will wander around in perpetuity
My imaginary, because you don’t exist, and you never will
Because you are just in my head, not in this reality
All of your colors are mine, all of your edges and shapes
To define? To limit? Open your eyes so you can see again
I will draw you into existence, I’ll write your lines as you talk
Luring your voice seductive, I will pace the paths you walk
All the time in the world won’t be enough
Crafting you has been deceiving and trechearous
We can fit infinity into a cardboard box
But we can fit into our hearts no reason at all
Who are you? Without your eyes I am so small
I tried creating you, but then I hit a wall
If I am nothing without you
and you can let me fall
Am I the imaginary one?
Or is my heart your heart?
Illustration from pixabay
- Have you ever been perfectly healthy and stopped for a minute to appreciate that moment? And maybe thank the universe or whatever for such an amazing feeling. You maybe aren’t feeling something specially great, but also you are not feeling anything wrong. Like appreciating those escarce moments when you can breathe from both nostrils, when normally, you suffer from allergies.
When I get sick I think a lot about how I should be a lot more thankful when I’m perfectly healthy. So, recently I got a stupid flu, and it wasn’t even the worst flu ever, but I felt like I was a super fragile being. I get a regular flu and for two days I feel like dying. I can’t breathe right, I can’t sleep right, or eat, or talk… and all I can think of is how uncomfortable everything turns out to be just because I’m a little bit sick.
When I was little I used to get a lot of paper cuts on my fingers. And because I was weird, and it felt weird for me, eventually I started to get paper cuts on purpose. It was amazing for me how a little, tiny cut disturbed my whole existence. This whole body is feeling right, but get one paper cut and immediately all you can feel is that piece of skin. Getting burned is also incredibly uncomfortable.
The truth is we human beings are so very fragile. You can fall over and break a bone easily. You can sneeze so hard you can break a rib. You make a weird turn with your body and suddenly your knee is out of place (it happened to me). And yet, we look over and over for situations that put our lives in risk ON PURPOSE.
What is it? Why do we love danger? Even if we are scared (raise your hand if you love scary movies). Why do we enjoy that rush of adrenaline and the possibility of, you know, dying? Why do we need to feel… so much…? Why do we need extreme experiences to make us feel alive? That’s just the way our body works.
Such situations trigger a bunch of hormones into our brain, making us feel super-human, all of our senses work better and some other body functions slow down. Put all together and you get a rush of alertness and awareness that some people get addicted to. Pain from wounds (like paper cuts) also release endorphins, in an attempt to relieve the pain, but endorphins also boost pleasure.
So yeah, that’s how the body works. But I’m not a scientist, I’m a weird hippy. So why?
Are we so dead on regular basis, in our regular life that we need to search for something to make us feel alive? As we grow up less and less things make us feel excited( including food) so we start searching for different things to experience, and we go try exotic foods, weird sex positions and situations, different experiences, because we run away from monotony, and our senses start to work less and less. We start to die. We are always dying.
But we are always dying because we almost never stop for a second to appreciate all the life in us. We should do it as many times in a day as possible. Thank your eyes, because you can (probably, how are you reading this?) see. Thank your skin, it’s the largest organ in your body, and it’s super sensitive, it gives you the sense of touch, it lets you enjoy the caress of the wind or from someone you love. Thank your ears, because music. Thank your tongue, because freaking chocolate. Your nose, because it’s awesome to smell people you like……….what?
Start by thanking for the air you breathe. Have you notices the pleasure of inhaling and exhaling? It’s always there, but have you noticed? You don’t even have to put effort in it.
Thank all your body, in sickness and in health, because against all odds, against your own will maybe, it’s trying to keep you alive. It works so hard, even when you are asleep, it literally fights for your life so you can eat those fries that actually kill it. But they make you happy, and your body is so humble that it says: “there, there, I’ll work the best I can with what all you are giving me, just for a chance to get one more day, one more shot at this, one more opportunity so you can discover what your existence means, so you can laugh, cry, and if you are lucky enough, so you can love.”
Be kind to your body. Be kind to yourself in your mind too.
Daily reminder: you are alive, but don’t forget you need to actually live.
All images from pixabay
What is freedom?
Freedom, generally, is having an ability to act or change without constraint. A thing is “free” if it can change its state easily and is not constrained in its present state. In philosophy and religion, it is associated with having free will and being without undue or unjust constraints, or enslavement, and is an idea closely related to the concept of liberty. Wikipedia.
I think human beings love concepts. And we have invented a lot of words for things that don’t exist. I personally love the word freedom. It’s a beautiful idea, a beautiful goal, a beautiful thing to think about. And it’s beautiful to think you have it, and even live by that thought. As if you could possess such thing.
All of us think we should be able to do anything we want, whenever we want, with little to no repercutions to it. If we are not able to, then apparently, we are not free. The funny part is we think we know what we want and what we need. Yeah right, because we are oh so wise!
I came upon two concepts of freedom that called my attention:
Imagine you’ve been a prisoner for 50 years, enchained to the floor all this time. You obviously don’t want this situation, do you? Eventually you are freed from your chains. What do you do now? You haven’t been in the outside world for 50 years. You don’t even know where to start. But you are free to go and figure it all out.
Negative liberty Vs. Positive liberty.
Negative liberty is freedom from interference by other people. Negative liberty is primarily concerned with freedom from external restraint. Wikipedia.
Freedom from. This is where it begins. In real life we have tons of restrictions. Probably more than you think. Because basically since we are born society puts invisible chains on us. You have to dress, for starters. Let’s not even talk about how you have to dress a certain way, let’s leave it at: you have to wear clothes. (Unless you are born in a nudist society, if so, great for you.) Have you ever seen a kid having a tantrum because they don’t want to get dressed? Sometimes they even are allowed to run around naked, man, what a beautiful life, parenting done right.
Truth is because we live in society we obviously have to have rules and norms in order to prevent chaos. No, you can’t kill your neighboor for being an ass. No, you can’t go on if the light is red. No, you can’t steal that even if you need it. This is only the legal part. There are things you can do but you probably avoid because YOU KNOW. So no, you can’t scream in a church (is it illegal?).
Then you have to act a certain way, this is the really bad part. You can’t wear a skirt if you are a boy. You can’t have a tattoo on your face if you want to be a highschool teacher. Girls don’t swear.
All this lack of freedom to do, to be. It’s all imposed so hard on you by the outside world that you start to impose it on yourself and generations to come. You don’t even realise, that’s just the way it is. Some are necessary, but some are ridiculous. In the end, who decides which is which?
Positive liberty is the possession of the capacity to act upon one’s free will. Wikipedia.
If you are free from, you are free to. I think this is the hardest part. If you were free to kill anybody, would you? With great power comes great responsibility. If you had total freedom, it wouldn’t mean you’d know what to do with it. It wouldn’t mean you’d choose right.
You see, freedom from has no real meaning if you don’t know what to do with it. First you have to discover who you truly are. Who are you without all those restraints? Nothing is really stopping you from wearing that skirt, boy. So why don’t you? Chances are you don’t even want to wear it, because it’s not meant for you. But skirts are super comfortable, I swear. Don’t let your masculinity be that fragile, don’t make wearing a freaking skirt make you feel insecure.
Talking about politics and countries for example. What does a country do after it’s free from their government? What comes next? It has to build something new. But what? How?
Important note: You’re freedom ends where mine begins.
Hurting someone because you can, doesn’t mean you are free. It means you’re a dick. And you are a prisoner of your dick-like thoughts. Sorry.
My vision of freedom is to be yourself. – Osho
So in the end, is freedom a real thing? If you want to be 100% free, you should get into a forest and live forever alone. There is no way to have a society free of norm and rules. Those will always exist. And then, you have a human body. You have limits, I’m sorry. You can’t fly (or can you?). What you can hope is to have enough courage to be yourself.
But note that being yourself means a lot of things, it doesn’t mean doing whatever you want. Chances are “whatever you want” are just thoughts programmed in your brain by external sources too. You have to reprogram everything you think you are. This is one hard task.
We indentify ourselves with too many things that have nothing to do with us, and we end up believing we wouldn’t be nothing without them. Who would you be without your past? So many things have shaped you in what you are today. Some of those you don’t like. But you can’t help it. Except you can.
This is not about change, it’s about becoming. Becoming what you already are. It’s like peeling an onion. Your true self is hidden in the center. Around you there are tons of masks. Fears, customs, traditions, insecurities.
You’ve had many voices inside of you up until now. The voice of society, the voice of your mom, of your dad, of your friends. All telling you what’s right and what’s not. What’s cool and what’s not. Where’s your own voice? Go figure it out. And don’t be afraid of what you may find. Or do, but don’t let fear stop you.
HONESTY. Remember? Haven’t you heard?
Truth will set you free.
They say you should always trust actions instead of words. But I don’t think this applies 100% of the time.
Have you ever done something you regretted later? Have you ever taked bad decisions? Have you ever done things to hide what you really think? Or feel?
“Don’t trust their words, trust their actions, because they will show you why words are meaningless.”
Yeah right, because actions can’t be meaningless too.
Some people have a really bad idea of themselves, and they portray themselves as something entirely different from what they really are. This goes both ways. There’s people who preach about being super cool, when they are not. Some people say they are the worst, and they are not.
And then there’s people who seem super cool, but they warn you, first thing, they are not. It can take you a long time to figure out what they’re talking about. Until you finally realise you should have trusted their words first.
But we are not black or white, we are human beings, which means we have tons of shades.
Some people can’t see themselves clearly. Most of us can’t. We have many blind spots where we lose ourselves. The best thing we can do is try to be honest with ourselves first, so we can be honest with the world later. Easier said than done.
I am one of those who warns the people around me. The closest to me get it worse, because I try to let them see my worst sides, so if they stay, it’s because they really like me. Honesty can be brutal. It can break someone in so many ways, into so many little pieces. But it’s the best we can do.
It can break you. Being brutally honest with yourself is one of the hardest tasks you can manage. Not only is it difficult, but it’s heartbreaking, not to mention scary. It’s exhausting. But it’s something we must all do, if we are trying to learn anything about our existence.
We have to try and look into all the dark rooms in our minds and hearts, look at the darkness straight into the eyes and say: I see you. Only then can you own it, before it owns you. Only then can you avoid breaking yourself and others through lies, it doesn’t matter if it’s words or actions.
The more honest you are with yourself, the more honest you can be with the world, and the closest will your words be to your actions.
Actions lie too.
If you don’t even know yourself, if you don’t know who you are, how do you expect your actions will define you? If you are scared of who you are, of how you think and feel, how will you act according to your words?
And as I said, this goes both ways. Chances are you will meet someone who has made awful decisions in their life, but they turn out to be amazing human beings. These are the ones that learn from their experiences. Keep them around. You might learn a lot too
Sometimes words do tell you the truth first.
If you meet someone who wears warnings all over, trust their words. Also these people tend to be some kind of wonderful, just because they have managed the honesty part. But then again this doesn’t mean they are entirely as bad as they think they are.
You have see a person as a whole. Not just their actions and not just their words. Everything they do and say, is telling you something about themselves. The contradiction tells you something, and the lack of it tells you something too.
We love honesty, but no one is that good at it. So before you ask the world to be honest with you, look yourself in a mirror and be honest with yourself first.
Have the courage to accept who you are, with all your flaws, your weird psycho thoughts, your stupidly intense emotions. Be brave enough to explore yourself so it can’t surprise you, don’t let the darkness use you just because you don’t know it’s there. Trust in your light. And trust the light of others.
We all have some darkness.
And that is beautiful too.